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April 25, 2007

Updating Again

Internete access remains unreliable. Technician supposed to be dispatched this afternoon.

Mom is out of the hospital and ensconsed in a little bedroom/bathroom set-up at her sister's house.

Final diagnosis? (Diagnosises? Diagnoses?) Lou Gehrig's disease, a mass on one of her adrenal glands, a partially enlarged heart due to blood clots, and an unusual amount of brain damage from her hypertension.

Yes, we feel guilty about not taking charge of her and watching her health over the last two or three years, but when she was feeling well, no one could make her do anything she didn't want to do and what she didn't want to do was lose her independence.

We, along with tens of thousands of other families in the USofA have been struggling with this issue for years. How unhappy are you entitled to make an aging parent under the guise of "taking care of them"?

My health? Quite fine, thank you. As expected, the CAT scan found nothing at all. The "shadow" was just a shadow.

Yesterday's massive storm dropped up to 20" of snow around south and west of the Denver area and in the foothills. Colorado in the spring is such an adventure.

We got snow and rain alternating all day long, but no actual accumulation (the rain melted it). I had to cancel plans to drive to Colorado Springs to have dinner with friends because the highway was closed, but I have new plans for this evening and hope to make it through tonight!

Leaving for Missouri on Friday. I'll be taking the laptop and should have internet access at least once a day.

Nothing new on the job hunt. To be honest, between the health stuff (mine and Mom's) and the internet problems, I haven't had a lot of time to be searching in the last week. Now that I'm leaving town for a week, I'm not sure how much point there is in searching until I get back. I won't be available for interviews.

Being a Lady of Leisure isn't quite turning out the way I'd anticipated.

posted by AnneZook on 04.25.07 at 09:42 AM





Comments:

One of our rights as adults is indeed the right of self-neglect....

posted by: Jonathan Dresner on 04.25.07 at 01:55 PM [permalink]



Yes, but it annoys those around us :) which is, I think, part of the price we have to pay.

posted by: Anne on 04.26.07 at 10:08 AM [permalink]






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